My Story
I know what you're living through.
I survived six years of court battles with a narcissist that nearly destroyed me.
There were nights I didn’t sleep for more than 30 minutes. I was so depleted I couldn't eat.
Meanwhile, I was drowning in fear, confusion, and legal bills I couldn’t afford.
Every email—from my ex or even my lawyer—set off panic in my body.
My heart would race. My hands would shake.
I lived in a constant state of fight-or-flight. And week after week, I had to hand my children over to their father while they kicked, screamed, and begged me not to.
I did everything I was told to do. I read every book, took every course, followed the rules, stayed calm, cooperated. But the abuse didn’t stop. The system didn’t help. I felt crazy. And I felt completely alone.
I found my way out.
Then one day, something shifted.
I realized the answers I was searching for weren’t outside of me — they were in me. I was the answer. The moment I stopped looking for someone else to fix it and started trusting myself, things changed.
Today, I have full decision-making authority and full-time care of my children. I’m no longer paying endless fees to lawyers, parenting coordinators, assessors, or therapists. I’m not living in fear. I’m not constantly reacting. I am free.
My kids are thriving. I am surrounded by loving, supportive relationships. I have my health back. I have space for joy, creativity, and calm.
And you can too.
You're not crazy. You're up against something that's designed to break you.
I understand the hell of divorcing a narcissist. The trauma of not being able to protect your kids. The exhaustion of trying to survive a system that seems designed to silence and discredit you. The grief of watching your life force drain out of you while doing everything “right.”
That’s why I do what I do.
I don’t offer quick fixes or one-size-fits-all advice. I offer the kind of support I wish I’d had — the kind that helps you reconnect with your own knowing, your own clarity, your own power.
I believe in your ability to find your way out — because I found mine.
And I’m here to walk with you until you remember:
You are the answer.
Hello
My name is Veya
I survived six years of high conflict litigation in the family law system. I understand what it feels like to not be able to protect your children. To have your finances, health and life decimated by someone you once thought you loved. I've learned how to not only get free, but how to transform the pain and trauma into life changing healing. I've lived it. And I know how to get out. Let me show you how.
